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Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Positive thinking....and tips to be positive


       "A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty........."  what is this??
 who is a pessimist? who is an optimist? what is the relation for positive thinking and this quote???
  
       Come on we will see the relation now.......a PESSIMIST , the person who lacks his confidence in every aspect ...an optimist is a person who has full of confidence in every aspect..........

 let us see a live example here.....
                     
                        Once there is a student who is very intelligent and his teacher used to praise him daily and that teacher used to motivate other students by saying about this intelligent boy..... he is habituated with such praising by his teacher that was going on daily...and he started thinking in such a way that no one can do him anything..i.e, no one can reach him in studies and then became very proud.One fine day the teacher recognizes this boy that he became proud and she stopped praising this boy and now the boy is not at all happy at the teacher...but still he is proud and the exams came closer.This boy is thinking in such a way that he knows every thing and didnt read....and finally his rank was gone.then the teacher started praising that boy who got 1st this time....
this boy became very aggressive  and  was very angry with the teacher...again 2nd time also some other boy will get the 1st rank...this continues and his position gets degraded day by day...then one he started thinking that " why is this teacher not saying about me?   what is the mistake i did? why am i getting less marks? why am i unable to read?" then he started thinking positively that i can get my rank again and didnt think of anything and put all his efforts to be as him....then he again succeeded ....thus positive thinking is our weapon....it is one of the main qualities to get succeeded in our life.......


10 things to keep you positive

1. Use affirmations - Read and listen to affirmations so that you can begin to change your self-talk. 

2. Intention - Set your intention each morning to have a positive day! Remember you choose your attitude! 

3. Mindfulness - Keep your attention in the present moment. 

4. Link to think -Pick something you do frequently (perhaps making a phone call) and let that be a reminder to think a positive thought. 

5. Gratitude - Develop an attitude of gratitude by keeping a gratitude journal. 

                                  

6. Inspiration - Read and watch inspirational and motivational material to lift your mood. 

7. Positive people - Surround yourself with positive people. They will help you stay focused on the positive. 

8. Kindness - Be kind to yourself and those around you. 


9. Applied faith - Trust that every situation has the seeds for growth and opportunity. 

10. Smile - Smile when you see others. Smile when you are talking on the phone. A smile is contagious.


   So,friends always think in a positive way and try to self hypnotize which really gives you success in your life...all the best think positively from this second only......